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The Delays of Love

by Alexander Maclaren (1826-1910)

‘Now Jesus loved Martha, and her sister, and Lazarus. When He had heardtherefore that he was sick, He abode two days still in the same place where He was.’ 

John 11:5, 6 


WE learn from a later verse of this chapter that Lazarus had been dead four
days when Christ reached Bethany. The distance from that village to the
probable place of Christ’s abode, when He received the message, was
about a day’s journey. If, therefore, to the two days on which He abode
still after the receipt of the news, we add the day which the messengers
took to reach Him and the day which He occupied in travelling, we get the
four days since which Lazarus had been laid in his grave. Consequently the
probability is that, when our Lord had the message, the man was dead.
Christ did not remain still, therefore, in order to work a greater miracle by
raising Lazarus from the dead than He would have done by healing, but He
stayed — strange as it would appear — for reasons closely connected with
the highest well-being of all the beloved three, and because He loved them.

John is always very particular in his use of that word ‘therefore,’ and he
points out many a subtle and beautiful connection of cause and effect by his
employment of it. I do not know that any of them are more significant and
more full of illumination with regard to the ways of divine providence than
the instance before us. How these two sisters must have looked down the
rocky road that led up from Jericho during those four weary days, to see if
there were any signs of His coming. How strange it must have appeared to
the disciples themselves that He made no sign of movement,
notwithstanding the message. Perhaps John’s scrupulous carefulness in
pointing out that His love was Christ’s reason for His quiescence may
reflect a remembrance of the doubts that had crept over the minds of
himself and his brethren during these two days of strange inaction. The
Evangelist will have us learn a lesson, which reaches far beyond the
instance in hand, and casts light on many dark places.

I. Christ’s delays are the delays of love.

We have all of us, I suppose, had experience of desires for the removal of
bitterness or sorrows, or for the fulfilment of expectations and wishes,
which we believed, on the best evidence that we could find, to be in
accordance with His will, and which we have been able to make prayers
out of, in true faith and submission, which prayers have had to be offered
over and over and over again, and no answer has coma It is part of the
method of Providence that the lifting away of the burden and the coming of
the desires should be a hope deferred. And instead of stumbling at the
mystery, or feeling as if it made a great demand upon our faith, would it
not be wiser for us to lay hold of that little word of the Apostle’s here, and
to see in it a small window that opens out on to a boundless prospect, and
a glimpse into the very heart of the divine motives in His dealings with us?

If we could once get that conviction into our hearts, how quietly we should
go about our work! What a beautiful and brave patience there would be in
us, if we habitually felt that the only reason which actuates God’s
providence in its choice of times of fulfilling our desires and lifting away
our bitterness is our own good! Nothing but the purest and simplest love,
transparent and without a fold in it, sways Him in all that He does. Why
should it be so difficult for us to believe this? If we were more in the way
of looking at life, with all its often unwelcome duty, and its arrows of pain
and sorrow, and all the disappointments and other ills that it is heir to, as a
discipline, and were to think less about the unpleasantness, and more about
the purpose, of what befalls us, we should find far less difficulty in
understanding that His delay is born of love, and is a token of His tender
care.

Sorrow is prolonged for the same reason as it was sent. It is of little use to
send it for a little while. In the majority of cases, time is an element in its
working its right effect upon us. If the weight is lifted, the elastic substance
beneath springs up again. As soon as the wind passes over the cornfield,
the bowing ears raise themselves. You have to steep foul things in water
for a good while before the pure liquid washes out the stains. And so time
is an element in all the good that we get out of the discipline of life.
Therefore, the same love which sends must necessarily protract, beyond
our desires, the discipline under which we are put. If we thought of it, as I
have said, more frequently as discipline and schooling, and less frequently
as pain and a burden, we should understand the meaning of things a great
deal better than we do, and should be able to face them with braver hearts,
and with a patient, almost joyous, endurance.

If we think of some of the purposes of our sorrows and burdens, we shall
discern still more clearly that time is needed for accomplishing them, and
that, therefore, love must delay its coming to take them away. For 
example, the object of them all, and the highest blessing that any of us can
obtain, is that our wills should be bent until they coincide with God’s, and
that takes time. The shipwright, when he gets a bit of timber that he wants
to make a ‘knee’ out of, knows that to mould it into the right form is not
the work of a day. A will may be broken at a blow, but it will take a while
to bend it. And just because swiftly passing disasters have little permanent
effect in moulding our wills, it is a blessing, and not an evil, to have some
standing fact in our lives, which will make a continual demand upon us for
continually repeated acts of bowing ourselves beneath His sweet, though it
may seem severe, will. God’s love in Jesus Christ can give us nothing
better than the opportunity of bowing our wills to His, and saying, ‘Not
mine, but Thine be done.’ If that is why lie stops on the other side of
Jordan, and does not come even to the loving messages of beloved hearts,
then He shows His love in the sweetest and the loftiest form. So, dear
friends, if you carry a lifelong sorrow, do not think that it is a mystery why
it should lie upon your shoulders when there are omnipotence and an
infinite heart in the heavens. If it has the effect of bending you to His
purpose, it is the truest token of His loving care that He can send. In like
manner, is it not worth carrying a weight of unfulfilled wishes, and a
weariness of unalleviated sorrows, if these do teach us three things, which
are one thing — faith, endurance, prayerfulness, and so knit us by a
threefold cord that cannot be broken, to the very heart of God Himself?

II. This delayed help always comes at the right time.

Do not let us forget that Heaven’s clock is different from ours. In our day
there are twelve hours, and in God’s a thousand years. What seems long to
us is to Him ‘a little while.’ Let us not imitate the shortsighted impatience
of His disciples, who said, ‘What is this that He saith, A little while? We
cannot tell what He saith.’ The time of separation looked so long in
anticipation to them, and to Him it had dwindled to a moment. For two
days, eight-and-forty hours, He delayed His answer to Mary and Martha,
and they thought it an eternity, while the heavy hours crept by, and they
only said, ‘It’s very weary, He cometh not, they said.’ How long did it look
to them when they had got Lazarus back?

The longest protraction of the fulfilment of the most yearning expectation
and fulfilled desire will seem but as the winking of an eyelid when we get
to estimate duration by the same scale by which He estimates it, the scale
of Eternity. The ephemeral insect, born in the morning and dead when the day fades, has a still minuter scale than ours, but we should not think of
regulating our estimate of long and short by it. Do not let us commit the
equal absurdity of regulating the march of His providence by the swift
beating of our timepieces. God works leisurely because God has eternity to
work in.

The answer always comes at the right time, and is punctual though
delayed. For instance, Peter is in prison. The Church keeps praying for him;
prays on, day after day. No answer. The week of the feast comes. Prayer is
made intensely and fervently and continuously. No answer. The slow hours
pass away. The last day of his life, as it would appear, comes and goes. No
answer. The night gathers; prayer rises to heaven. The last hour of the last
watch of the last night that he had to live has come, and as the veil of
darkness is thinning, and the day is beginning to break, ‘the angel of the
Lord shone round about him.’ But there is no haste in his deliverance. All
is done leisurely, as in the confidence of ample time to spare, and perfect
security. He is bidden to arise quickly, but there is no hurry in the stages of
his liberation. ‘Gird thyself and bind on thy sandals.’ He is to take time to
lace them. There is no fear of the quaternion of soldiers waking, or of there
not being time to do all. We can fancy the half-sleeping andwholly bewildered
Apostle fumbling at the sandal-strings, in dread of some movement rousing his guards, and the calm angel face looking on. The sandals fastened, he is bidden to put on his garments and follow. With equal leisure and orderliness he is conducted through the first and the second guard of sleeping soldiers, and then through the prison gate. He might have been lifted at once clean out of his dungeon, and set down in the house where many were gathered praying for him. But more signal was the demonstration of power which a deliverance so gradual gave, when it led him slowly past all obstacles and paralysed their power. God is never in haste. He never comes too soon nor too late. ‘The Lord shall help them, and that right early.’ Sennacherib’s army is round the city, famine is within the walls. To-morrow will be too late. But to-night the angel strikes, and the enemies are all dead men. So God’s delay makes the deliverance the more signal and joyous when it is granted. And though hope deferred may sometimes make the heart sick, the desire, when it comes, is a tree of life.

III. The best help is not delayed.

The principle which we have been illustrating applies only to one half —
and that the less important half — of our prayers and of Christ’s answers. For in regard to spiritual blessings, and our petitions for fuller, purer, and
diviner life, there is no delay. In that region the law is not ‘He abode still
two days in the same place,’ but ‘Before they call I will answer, and while
they are yet speaking I will hear.’ If you have been praying for deeper
knowledge of God, for lives liker His, for hearts more filled with the Spirit,
and have not had the answer, do not fall back upon the misapplication of
such a principle as this of my text, which has nothing to do with that
region; but remember that the only reason why good people do not
immediately get the blessings of the Christian life for which they ask lies in
themselves, and not at all in God. ‘Ye have not, because ye ask not. Ye ask
and have not, because’ — not because of delays, but because — ‘ye ask
amiss,’ or because, having asked, you get up from your knees and go
away, not looking to see whether the blessing is coming down or not.

Ah! there is a sad amount of lying and hypocrisy in prayers for spiritual
blessings. Many petitioners do not want to have them. They would not
know what to do with them if they got them. They make the requests
because their fathers did so before them, and because these are the right
kind of things to say in a prayer. Such prayers get no answers. It a man
prays for some spiritual enlargement, and then goes out into the world and
lives clean contrary to his prayers, what right has he to say that God delays
His answers? No, He does not delay His answers, but we push back His
answers, and the gift that is given we will not take. Let us remember that
the two halves of the divine dealings are not regulated by the same
principle, though they be regulated by the same motive; and that the love
which often delays for our good, in regard to the desires that have
reference to outward things, is swift as the lightning to answer every
petition which moves within the circle of our spiritual life.

‘Whatsoever things ye desire, when ye stand praying, believe that’ then and
there ‘ye receive them’; and the undelaying God will take care that ‘you
shall have them.’
 

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